So my ex wrote to me today. Three months to the day since we broke up. I never expected to hear from him again, really. I am still sorting through the emotions to figure out what it is I'm feeling. I think the anger has passed (although it may just require visual stimuli to get it going again), and the sadness isn't hitting me like a ton of bricks, and I'm lonely, but not especially for him. Hmmm... I don't think I'm over him, but maybe I'm moving on? This would be a big improvement over previous splits. A BIG improvement. We'll have to see what happens if we ever see each other again. I'm not going to suggest it, though. I don't want to know.