I was asked this weekend just what is it I'm looking for in a man, and I couldn't come up with anything. This was probably because I was surrounded by examples of male physical perfection and I couldn't seem to keep my mind on what really matters, which is personality, sense of humor, etc.

However, I stumbled across my perfect example when discussing Crossing Delancey with Kevin yesterday afternoon. What I find really attractive in a man:

He's handsome, charming, confident and capable, able to talk to bobbes, knows what he wants, etc. And he's not ashamed of his job (if it's not white collar), does it well, and is well-rounded in his interests. Oh, and he always says the right thing, which you'd think is a movie-only trait, but I had a boyfriend who could do that, so I know it exists in the real world.

Kevin is of the opinion that I need a Jewish man. He might be right.